rubyrose
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Post by rubyrose on Nov 21, 2017 2:02:47 GMT -5
Hey all so the baby was born on Sunday at 27 weeks 😞 My dad really wants me to give her up and that brakes my hart to say bye to her when I leave the hospital let alone to say bye to her forever just because I was 15 nelly 16 I would miss her so much I could not see my life without her and now my depression is getting so bad I want to kill my just so I don't have to make a decision please give me advice on what to do
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Post by MGIA21 on Nov 24, 2017 19:46:45 GMT -5
You should just keep the baby, no one can tell you what to do. It's your baby, and you shouldn't listen to anyone that tells you otherwise.
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Post by MGIA21 on Nov 24, 2017 19:47:51 GMT -5
I'm 15 btw so my advice is probably stupid/not helpful.
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Post by rubyrose on Nov 28, 2017 1:23:15 GMT -5
No your advice helps its just I struggle to go see her in the way she is I feel like such a bad mum and I don't now if I want her I'm a horrible person just horrible
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Post by MGIA21 on Nov 29, 2017 0:26:04 GMT -5
Well, I understand why you might not want to keep her. It's a tough decision to make but in the end, you'll find out the right way to go. Until then just try and see if you are willing to have a future with her/be there for her when others aren't.
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Post by rubyrose on Nov 29, 2017 3:14:52 GMT -5
Yeah I'm trying but I just don't now if I can I would love if I could keep her but I don't now if I'm ready right now and I'm trying to be with her but I just don't now. I just don't now if me and my boyfriend are ready for this at the moment.
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Post by MGIA21 on Nov 29, 2017 22:57:36 GMT -5
Well, she'll understand that you guys weren't ready for her. Whatever decision you make she should understand that you weren't ready to take care of a child yet. And once you're ready you'll be able to take care of her again. Hope you figure it out soon. Wish you luck!
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Post by rubyrose on Nov 30, 2017 0:43:12 GMT -5
Same and thanks I needed that
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Post by MGIA21 on Dec 15, 2017 21:54:05 GMT -5
No problem. Anything to help.  |
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Post by rubyrose on Dec 18, 2017 13:03:42 GMT -5
Thanks
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